Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Little Keepers at Home



Little Keepers at Home

A little over a year ago, a friend of mine told me about a group she had found online called Keepers of the Faith.  We both have girls, and we had talked about how we just weren’t really comfortable allowing them to be part of Girl Scouts, but that we loved the idea of a “club” where they could get together with friends, do projects, etc.  We also had discussed ways to keep our girls involved with each other and to grow in faith and knowledge of God.   She directed me to this website:  keepersofthefaith.com and asked me what I thought. 

In a nutshell, the basic premise of this group is similar to Girl Scouts, but with a Biblical focus.  The girls can earn “badges” for achievements they accomplish individually as a group.  All of the badges are designed to train the girls to fulfill the role God has established for all women; to be keepers at home.   We stress frequently to them that their role as keepers at home is nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about.  It is a difficult, rewarding, and blessed role to have in service to God!  We encourage them to be thankful for God’s wisdom in allowing them to serve in these ways.

Each “club” of Little Keepers is autonomous.  The company makes the books, badges, and various materials available for purchase, but there is no central governing authority dictating when, how, or if you cover certain tasks.  As a result, we do not have to worry about false doctrine or teachings permeating our lessons or activities.  We set the tone for the sessions based on scriptural teachings.

The more my friend and I discussed it, the more we could see this idea being made a reality with our girls and their friends.  So, we typed up a proposal and took it to our elders for consideration.   After some discussion, the elders agreed to allow the girls to meet on Wednesday nights to fellowship, work towards badges, and, most importantly, to learn more about God.   Each meeting includes a meal, a devotion or application of God’s word, and a project or activity.  We have been meeting now for over a year, and it has strengthened our girls in ways we didn’t realize could happen so quickly.  It has been a work in progress, but even people outside our small group of girls and moms have commented on the difference they have seen among the girls who attend.   We work together during our meetings on various tasks and projects, and every 4-6 months we have a “pinning” for our girls.  We average 10-12 girls at each meeting, and their current ages range from 6-13.  We are getting ready to welcome a new group of girls, some of whom are 3 and 4 years old, and we look forward to watching them grow and change alongside our current club members. 

Some of our projects from the year include:
  • Bible reading – Jonah, Ephesians, and Daniel are some of the books they’ve read
  • Bible Memory work – including model prayer, obedience verses, books of the Bible, kindness verses, love verses
  • Weekly devotions about our roles as girls/women in God’s kingdom
  • Painting self-portraits with watercolor
  • Painting favorite Bible stories with watercolor
  • Decoupaging trivets for our widows’ brunch
  • Decoupaging lap desks
  • Learning to bake cinnamon rolls (from scratch!!)
  • Learning to decorate cupcakes
  • Visiting the nursing home and delivering hand-made crafts the girls made
  • Singing Christmas songs at the nursing home
  • Preparing, decorating for, and sponsoring a dinner for the elders and their wives
  • Scrapbooking
  • Rubber stamping
  • Painting trivets for home
  • Card-making
  • Grandparents’ Day gifts
  • Family trees
  • Allowing the girls to lead songs and prayer among other girls
  • Manners and Etiquette training

Our girls have learned to work as a team towards common goals.  They are learning to be good friends to one another and to share in fun experiences together.   More importantly, they are developing the skills to serve God in the roles He has assigned them.  They are also learning to be comfortable praying and singing in an all-girls setting, which will hopefully aid them later when they become teachers of children and/or women. The moms have also grown closer together as we share in the joys and struggles of parenting.   I am so thankful for the opportunity to be part of this group, and I pray that God will continue to bless the efforts of the moms and children involved! 

Thursday, September 13, 2012

WW - week 2

I was down another 4 lbs this week!  Woohoo!  That's 8 total in the first two weeks.  I was thrilled, because the 2nd week of any new venture can kick your tail if you aren't careful!  The "novelty" of the first week has worn off, and it's down to the nitty gritty of the plan.  They say to expect more weight loss the first two to three weeks, and then it will slow down.  I'd love to lose at least 10-15 before my mom gets to her goal and I'm solo in this!  :)

My first comment this week is about the meetings.  I thought I would feel so self conscious about going to these meetings.  Would I feel FAT?  Would I feel sloppy?  Would I be embarrassed?  The answer is a resounding NO!  I have never met these people before, but as soon as you walk in the door, they are welcoming you into their group.  I guess it's because we are all fighting the same battle of the bulge, but it's so encouraging to have complete strangers cheering you on when they hear "another 4 down." I guess because they understand!  We all need a pat on the back sometimes, and for some reason it means a little more coming from someone who has been there, done that.  I'm neither the largest nor the smallest in there, yet I feel a part of something bigger.  I'm sure that sounds cheesy.   I can see why this program works, and why people keep going back, even after they reach their goal weight. 

The 2nd week was much harder than the first.   Mentally I had to stay really focused, because we had some major stress going on.  But, I feel stronger having conquered that and done well!  This week I feel better prepared to face the challenges, as I found some low point snacks that should help hold me over a little better.  Wish me luck!

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Weight Watchers Week 1 - reflections

Today marks the end of my first week on the plan, and I have a few reflections.

1.   This isn't a reflection, but I lost 4 pounds!  I was very excited!  I worked really hard at it this week, so I wasn't surprised that I did well, but still happy about it. 

2.  Food really affects my mood.  Being hungry makes me grouchy!  I THINK it's because of my blood sugar crashes, but, whatever the reason, I was a bear!  I have a great husband for putting up with me this week!

3.  Even "keeping track" of my food intake, I was underestimating how many times I grabbed stuff on the go!

4.  Being active again after 4 months of virtually NO activity while in the boot is hard!!  I love to walk, stretch, do yoga, etc., but it's tough to get back to being reasonably in shape!

5.  Taking a 4 year old with boundless energy with you to walk is a wonderful motivator, and every entertaining! 

6.  This will be a lifelong process for me.   It's time I just come to grips with it! 

7.  You can't do this without support!  At least, I can't!

8.  Eating out is a bad idea....for so many reasons!